Be More Than You ARE...

{Post: 10/365: Original Post: I AM a QUEEN}
If you don't like who you are and where you are, don't worry about it because you're not stuck either with who you are or where you are. You can grow. You can change. You can be more than you are. 
~Zig Ziglar~


This quote makes me think.
There are some aspects of us that are so hard to change that we get depressed and feel like failures and never let that go. We hold onto the things we CAN'T do and never allow ourselves to simply accept that maybe there are parts we can't change but there are also things we CAN and we SHOULD....
I myself am guilty of this. Sometimes things are just part of our nature and trying to change them makes us false to ourselves. 
Sometimes things are outside of our control and also can't be changed because it isn't in our power to do so...health for example...
so...when things are NOT changeable then it is time to find something that we CAN change, something that we CAN do to make things better, to make us like ourselves better. We should try a new hobby, or a new thing we have never done before...we need to open our hearts and minds to new ideas and just make different choices sometimes...
accept the things we cannot change and don't expect to be perfect...JUST...
CHANGE the things we can!

If we always do what we have always done, then nothing will ever change.
You have to TRY something new.
Even one small change can turn the course of your life enough that many new doors will open and many new things will come into your life.
The only thing you really have to decide is what it is that you really want to do NEXT!
I'm still figuring that out...but I will find it! Will you? ;)